All I'll say here is my husband pulls out all the chivalrous magic tricks..without treating women like objects with an expiration date and without apologizing for physical abuse. A true gentleman would never joke about beating a woman. If he were mister perfect who said half the things Tate has said I'd be setting myself up for manipulation. Like come on, girl. It's okay to say horrible things as long as YOU'RE being treated like a princess? Grow up..