Are you ok? I completely understand if you've been traumatized on account of sexism but I see on any article regarding gender your comments are exclusively reactionary. I know we're on the internet and internet people can be dicks sometimes, but what happened that made this such a difficult discussion for you? I get hurt by gender stuff too but I try to take myself out of the equation to analyze logically. It's turned me into a little bit of a cynic, but oh well.