I don't know your personal situation and I don't pretend to. I've known women who caved to the pressure about having kids when they really have no business at all raising anything. Then I've met childless women whom I could tell right away made the right decision. But the motherly instinct is super real for a lot of women and as someone who is probably going to get pregnant within the next two years I definitely look at the world differently now. It'll be interesting to see how much my personality changes once I do give birth.